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cheap-n-cheerful
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 11 10:59 am Post subject: |
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I'm new here so not able to comment on this thread, but it is my understanding that forums evolve, and just like real life people you come into contact with, some you love and some you dont.
I was a member of another forum for a long time, spent hours on it, and as I was a moderator I dipped into all the topics. Then things changed. Because I speak my mind and don't join fan clubs, dont cosy up to people, and don't do the huggy kissy thing, I suddenly didn't fit in. People mis understood my meanings and started to have a go at me, and it upset me because I couldn't understand why. I tried to state my case but nobody listened, so I gave up.
I have learnt from that experience. Learnt to not take forums too seriously. It takes a far stronger person to walk away when discussions start getting heated. From what I've seen here, there are some topics that I will not go into because I know I won't like what I read in them. For a nicer life I will ignore them. Squabbling is childish, and scoring points off each other is ridiculous. I think you should all say sorry and make up. |
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Brownbear
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Pilsbury
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 11 11:02 am Post subject: |
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cheap-n-cheerful wrote: |
I'm new here so not able to comment on this thread, but it is my understanding that forums evolve, and just like real life people you come into contact with, some you love and some you dont.
I was a member of another forum for a long time, spent hours on it, and as I was a moderator I dipped into all the topics. Then things changed. Because I speak my mind and don't join fan clubs, dont cosy up to people, and don't do the huggy kissy thing, I suddenly didn't fit in. People mis understood my meanings and started to have a go at me, and it upset me because I couldn't understand why. I tried to state my case but nobody listened, so I gave up.
I have learnt from that experience. Learnt to not take forums too seriously. It takes a far stronger person to walk away when discussions start getting heated. From what I've seen here, there are some topics that I will not go into because I know I won't like what I read in them. For a nicer life I will ignore them. Squabbling is childish, and scoring points off each other is ridiculous. I think you should all say sorry and make up. |
Nice post, thanks
possably up for the downsizer oscar for best use of emoticons as well |
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